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Waiting

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Soon after, the engagement date and the wedding date got fixed. Both the mothers made appointments with their trusted astrologers and matched the kundalis, luckily the match was good and both Vanessa and Vivan scored  23 and a half, which is considered to be good, on a scale of 36 where the minimum score must be 18. Her mom was in seventh heaven since her only daughter/ child was going to get married. Vanessa was happy too. But the thing that really bothered her was that will she and Vivan be compatible with each other; because as a girl her needs were different, maybe a lil different from the average girl. She was way too sensitive and emotional and she needed a guy who was willing to take her responsibility. It was not easy being with her, coz she needed someone to be there for her 24*7. She needed a guy who could listen to her chattering all day long, solve her troubles as if they were his own, help her with her daily routine, be there for her forever and always. And most...

The Families come together

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July 1, 2012 marked the beginning of a new chapter in Vanessa's and Vivan's life. They both liked each other and had gathered their families to make the announcement of their marriage. Vanessa was pretty excited as a girl whose marriage got fixed would be. She wore a green chiffon saree, and co incidentally even Vivan turned up in a green kurta. Her mom was very enthusiastic about the whole affair since this was the first and the last marriage that would take place in their family. Her maternal uncles were also present for the occasion who are more or less the pillar of strength for her mom. Vanessa  couldn't  help but notice how happy everyone was for her. The program started at around noon. It was a small little ceremony with her and Vivan giving brief introductions about themselves and later their families declaring their marriage. In Marathi this program is called 'Supari phodne', with the maternal uncle of the girl coming forward and making the announcem...